Meeting singles in nightclubs...
Nightclubs are a great way of spending the evening, especially if you are with a large group of people. You get to misbehave, joke around, dance wildly, take crazy photos, meet your friend’s friends and generally have a good time. However they are not really the ideal place to meet singles.
The disadvantages are: The music is loud which makes it difficult to talk, a major barrier to communication. Most people are drunk in clubs, so even if you can hear them it’ll be difficult to connect with the real person. When you do spot that hottie then you’ll have a lot of competition from all the other people.
A nightclub is not really a natural environment, people are putting on a little bit of an show. Think about it. You have to get ready, make an effort to wear something special, the guys try to act cool and the girls act cold to fend off the losers. You’ll also have to pay an entrance fee, spend time travelling there and the next day you may be nursing a hangover.
If you do meet someone at a nightclub and exchange phone numbers then you may have difficulty remembering what they look like. When you meet them for a first date they usually don't look as cute as you imagined. If you go out to nightclubs to meet singles then it requires a serious amount of effort and there is only a limited selection of singles to meet. If you go to a club to have a good time with your friends then that’s completely different story.
How does meeting singles in the streets compare? Every day 12 million people aged between 20-35 will walk down the street. About 1 in 3 of them will be single or not in a serious relationship. Saying hello to someone in the street requires zero effort. You just have to walk the 10 paces towards them and it’s free. You don’t need to get ready or to travel somewhere.
When you do meet that sexy single in the street, then they will be in behaving in a natural way. What you see is what you get. You can see how they naturally present themselves, how they are dressed and how they behaves. In a club people are in acting mode, so it’s difficult to find out what they’re really like.
Approaching people in the street shows you’ve got guts. They are always polite, and usually quite flattered. Exactly the opposite of what happens in a nightclub. In the street you can meet those beautiful and amazing people that don’t go to clubs, plus there's no competition from other guys. When you do go on that first date the person will look the same or even better than you remember!
Once you’ve broken the ice, meeting singles in the street is a really fun experience. It usually takes them by surprise, but it’s a nice surprise. It communicates so many positive things. It shows confidence, that you are spontaneous and are different from the rest.